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Dating a Married Man

No. When she turns and looks in your direction, keep staring at her. Try to meet her eyes. THAT will get her attention. ;)
Then smile, so there's no mistaking you looking her in the eyes for zoning out.
 
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I'm not pulling the trigger, she's cute, loves guns, but she hates coffee, fishing, fish, camping, tamales, and dogs.
 
She hates dogs?! That's unnatural. Oh well. I guess the reality never does live up to the fantasy does it?
Never does. When I made a list of deal breakers awhile back, I never thought to put dog hater on it.
 
"She never cried when old yeller died?"
Lol. This thread is seriously funny!

Shrugs. It is a bit odd....but not liking kids is more un natural imo. We couldn't have dogs when I was growing up....maybe she never had a chance to bond with one??

But even were there a semi natural reason she hates dogs....there are other fish in the sea!
 
Shrugs. It is a bit odd....but not liking kids is more un natural imo. We couldn't have dogs when I was growing up....maybe she never had a chance to bond with one??
Yeah I never understood not liking kids either although none of my kids have saved my life ...yet.
My dog Murphy literally saved me from a bear that jumped me.

Oh well, c'est la vie.
 

I won the stare battle yesterday!!! I still haven't gotten the conversation to polygamy. She knows that I have a wife, so that makes it hard.

I thought about another verse that would be great to vote Helpful. Song of Solomon 3:4. Going over there now to add this one.
 
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Pulpit Commentary
Verse 4. - It was but a little that I passed from them, when I found him whom my soul loveth: I held him, and would not let him go, until I had brought him into my mother's house, and into the chamber of her that conceived me. This verse plainly points to the search referred to in the previous verse being limited to the neighbourhood of Shulamith's home. The lover was not far off, though he had delayed his coming. Possibly it is a real occurrence which is related. In that case we must suppose that the night was not very far advanced. But the hypothesis of a dream is the most natural explanation. The word cherer, which is used of the house, denotes the inner part, penetralia. The modesty of the last clause is very beautiful. The mother would, of course, at that time be in her sleeping chamber. There alone would the maiden receive her lover at such a time. The mother would gladly welcome the young man, and thus the love which Shulamith declares is set upon the ground of perfect chastity and homely purity. The object of this little episode introduced by the bride into her song as she lies in the arms of Solomon is to show that, ecstatic and intense as her devotion is, it is not the lawless affection of a concubine, but the love of a noble wife. The religious emotions are always presented to us in Scripture, not as wild fanaticism or superficial excitement, but as pure offering of the heart which blends with the highest relations and interests of human life, and sanctifies home and country with all their ties and obligations. The mother and the child are one in the new atmosphere of bridal joy. No religion is worthy of the name which does not bring its object into the chamber of her who conceived us. We love all that are bound with us in life not the less, but the more, because we love Christ supremely. We revere all that is just and holy in the common world the more, and not the less, because we worship God and serve the Lord. What a rebuke to asceticism, monasticism, and all unsocial religion!
 
You won the stare.. that's great!
Also, she didn't run away. The door seems not shut.
Well, It's not the first time we made eye contact, but if she had run away, she would have had to come back. Yeah, I think the door is open a crack. I was hoping to have the stare last longer, and I am still working towards that. She helped me tune my trombone yesterday. That was pretty cool!
 
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