@paterfamilias- Asking someone to write better so you can understand something implies a shared, objective goal. You're not about judging the person's character and worth. Imagine if you started telling the person holding the presentation that you're not going to reproduce with them because you can't read their handwriting. What sort of reaction would you expect from them? Surely they'd fire back with something along the lines of "well dude your handwriting sucks too" and on top of that "you most likely can't read well." "Perhaps I wouldn't want to reproduce with you either."
Using someone's vaccination status to make unfounded accusations regarding intelligence, ability to critically think, or moral motives goes beyond preferring brunettes over blondes. (I don't know why anyone would, I'm biased though).
Anyway, you're right humans have always used various preferences to chose who they sleep with for centuries. My problem is that, this, like many of those preferences has become a social divide that creates distrust of the vaccinated and reduces them from actual people to symbols of something more sinister.
Are y'all even filtering ladies out because they're worthy of being filtered out or are you leading with accusations and assumptions prior to any real engagement with them. And when does this stop? How many young ladies have probably taken the vaccine at the direction of their parents? Imagine girl's my nieces age or your daughters ages, who will look to marry and have children in the future. Having to deal with being told things like that this by cranky old miserable men. It's absolutely childish.
With respect to handwriting not being enough to reject someone, the analogy was meant to be pretty loosey goosy but I also don't know what you know about reasons guys will be dismissed from consideration outside of your own thoughts on the matter.
I was lucky enough to meet my wife quite young while I was fitness signaling with a q-beam. So I have only had so much personal experience with the trivial reasons that men won't get the time of day from woman. I have however watched rather a lot of guys get the brush over things seemingly as trivial as my analogy.
I have not seen much about the vaccinated being judged for having taken the shot. I have however seen an enormous amount of purely irrational hyperbolic garbage from tje other side. Baby/grandma killers, plague rats, dirty disease ridden etc and too stupid to understand science blah blah blah.
I would absolutely say that this is far more prevelant narrative and worse it is an institutionally supported narrative.
I think that the unease you feel might be one of ecological niche in that this site is one of the few where the majority were not just low agreeability types...see our rebellion against the cultural norms around family and marriage by way of proof of comcept...but there are frankly rather a lot of info geeks and nerd here who enjoy digging into problems like the obfuscation of the data over the shots. So this environment is probably on the extreme right side of the bell curve.
I agree about the social divide. The unfortunate thing is that we are again back to institutional pressures which helped to femt the divide as well as pour fuel and start flinging matches between the respective camps
Personally I am a weirdo who sees an apocalyptic geomagnetic excursion coming in our lifetime and I really don't see that much mileage in being bent over the machinations which got us here given that in my opinion, the overwhelming majority of people will not survive to worry about this issue. That it is just an ugly example of pre collapse humanity. So... I figure that if by some stretch of the imagination a woman of child bering age falls for my dubious charms and she meets my other criteria (mainly IQ and personality related stuff) that we can address tje vaccination issue if the need arrives.
Long way of saying that I don't have the issue at the forefront of my mind.
I can't speak for others but I can give you a no bs look into how one guy...admittedly the oddest duck in the pond... filters his search. No clue if that insight will help or not.
If child bearing age then willing to go into production soonest. A very pro natalism stance. My political beliefs or willing to accept that I will be setting policy for the family in that respect...and no it is not being overbearimg, I am a teacher by nature and would walk her though all the data and proofs etc so she will agree if she is not a kook. Good positive attitude. Wants to focus on mom, family, home, schooling as opposed to any degree of girl bossing. Must like the idea of homesteading, scolding chickens for their silly behavior, must have the patience of a saint as I am a handful and prefer that she can dress like Rosie the riveter on occasion and help me with wrenching on projects or learn to drive a tractor and help me stretch wire or dig a pond.
You know, a normal woman two hundred years ago. Well...save for being even more patient, cause...it is me she would marry after all.
I have turned down women who were very much into what we have going in the family so I will tell you what put me off as I already said what would make the big ape swoon.
In one case, there was just such a gap between us that we both had a very difficult time communicating with the young woman. I am more utilitarian by nature but I do have enough of a romantic in me that I wish to be able to love a wife, not just treasure her. This would not have been a kind match for any of us.
There have been four who had body counts that made me very uncomfortable and as a result there could be no match.
There have been at least three where there was no common ground politically or culturally. One who got really offended when I mud stomped her on a topic where she has a degree and she Really did not like my proofs as they offended here political world view. That brings us to who knows how many who simply can not accept that someone has to be in charge in a family. Personally I intended to run my family and am willing to accept the responsibility for my own f'ups as well as those of my family. So, as this is the only way I function, woman unwilling to accept this fact are not a good match.
I suspect there are others things...
Not willing to consider someone who can not be in the country legally anymore as I have been through that palaver and paid tens of thousands of dollars in lawyers and court fees just to have it fail in the end.
Errr....have I mentioned patient?
