Definitely. My concern comes from us faulting other women for taking options that are not our personal ideal. Particularly when (in my opinion) there are valid arguments for pursuing a career and waiting to start a family. Just as there are valid arguments for not.
I do not think anyone is claiming that women pursuing a career and waiting to start a family is a sin. I think it is viewed as more of a Martha and Mary situation.
This website is Biblical _Families_ so it should not come as a surprise that there is a strong family advocate vibe here. I think many here, including myself, view a woman pursuing a career and waiting to start a family is a tactical life mistake.
For example, I have 3 sisters and my wife has 3 sisters, so 6 data points. All of them would much rather be a stay at home wife and mother than a career woman trying to raise a family at the same time, and all are or were unable to do so. Why is that?
1. School debts and other debts.
2. Not marrying men who were able to support them and/or had the moral value of the importance of supporting a stay at home mother.
3. Learning and not being willing to give up a lifestyle that requires a two income budget.
Often women themselves do not understand the trap that they have created for themselves until they have that first baby and they bring the baby home from the hospital and then realize that they will have to take that baby and drop it off a daycare for someone else to raise to go back to work in a career that no longer seems as important as that baby does.
Other problems with delay:
1. All the good men are taken already - you are picking last. (Marriage is important: pick first and get the best man you can! Hint: There is a shortage of good marrying men. Marry the first good man you can find. You might not get another chance. )
2. Biological clock. (Women assume they can have a baby whenever they want: this is a fiction. There is a limited window.).
I am advising my daughters that if they want to be a stay at home wife and mother they should prioritize that over career. I advise them to:
1. Find a man that has the means to support a family and do not become involved with a man who is not in a position to support a family. If you have to tell him to come back when he can support a family. Maybe you will still be available?
2. Make clear in the courtship that you expect to be a stay at home wife and mother.
3. Avoid debt at all cost.
4. Learn to live within your means.
If you do all of the above you have an excellent chance for success without having to go the career route.
One of my daughters started an online business so that she can be stay at home wife and mother and still contribute to the support of the family. Excellent idea in my opinion.
So if a women has her heart set on a career climbing the corporate ladder than by all means do that. But if her heart is set on being a wife and mother then I suggest that that should be her first priority.
That you can have it all is a fiction. Very few people really have it all. Life is all about prioritizing and making choices.
P.S. Women pursuing careers and waiting to start families is a societal problem as well because it leads to declining birth rates. Basically Western Civilization is dying because of it, but most people make decisions like these for personal reasons and not to save Western Civilization.