At the risk of sounding shallow and superficial, being holden to Exo. 21:10 a wise man is obviously going to want the most attractive women he can get from at least a motivational stand point. While attractive attributes can vary, beauty is pretty much universal for a man. The saying "men fall in love through their eyes" comes to mind, but perhaps it is also that women were created to be desirable, beauty being their primary attractive attribute. Referencing Gen. 6:2, the main motivator cited was the woman's beauty.
Incorrect. Men use simpler criteria, not a one.
Would you make child with literal idiot? It's more way more complex than you think.
while men's is his wealth/status/ability to provide.
Again incorrect. It is far more complex than you think. If provision is most important why Besos, Musk, Gates etc.... are surronded by model. None of their wives looks very impressive.
And women are smarter. They go to traits which signify ability to generate wealth, not your current wealth. She and her children are doomed if CurrentWealthGuy makes bad investmenta, loses everything and has no idea how to get back. That is straight to homeless in two years.
I'm sad to say, but Christians are most hopeless group when it comes how sexuality in humans actually functions. We have Bible, we know everything. And they never check how their ideas actually function in reality. Consequence is mass delusion.
For example, Bible commands bravery. Successful bravery generates confidence, assertivness, dominance. All traits which do make women horny. But you never hear this in sermon because Christians are too blind to connect dots.
No, all we hear is provision which women do like because it insures survival of them and children, but doesn't make them desiring of good romping. So we have existence of dead bedroom in Christdom. How is that possible? Because Christians believe lies about sexuality.
So practically
@RemnantResilience's post is problematic because one key assumption isn't correct.
