It was a good dynamic.
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Churchianity Lacks PRACTICAL Answers For Single Women!
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It was a great discussion while I was watching. Not sure when I'll find time to watch the next 2 hours I missed, but I'm sure it would have been awesome too! Great job.
Solution: Start teaching the truth about what the Bible teaches about marriage.
That’s essentially what we ended with.
Too bad you guys didn’t call me first, I could have saved you all that time...
That is awesome! I shared it on FB.
Interesting reading at this site...
www.quora.com
The following is one post taken from it:
Angelique Valentini
Studied at Saluda High School (Graduated 2010)Author has 4.7K answers and 15.3M answer views4y
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Do you think no one will marry you?
I really do believe I won't ever get married, nor will I ever have sex or have children. I'm not an attractive woman, and I doubt very much any guy would want to touch me. I've been single for six years, and I'm only three years from 30; from there, I'm ten years from 40.
Classmates I went to school with ages 26–28, are already married and have kids under the age of six. One classmate of mine got married in November of last year, having been with the guy for two years. They don't have any children yet, but for now their “children” are their three cats.
When I think about love, sex, and children, I think that I may NEVER experience any of those things. Becoming one with the person you love, and the joy of knowing that you'll be a Mother in nine months. I'll never know the joy of holding a child in my arms, that all that pain was worth it. I'll never know the overwhelming happiness as tears come out of my eyes.
I don't like it when people on Facebook, Quora, and other places talk about babies. I go into an even more depressed state, wishing that I could experience that.
I truly believe I'll be alone, with no children or significant other by my side. I wish everyday, and have for the past few years, that I'm dead by 30. Because why am I put on this planet, only to end up alone?
Knowing that people out there are immature that a 27 year old woman hasn't had sex yet, I'm disabling comments. I don't want anyone bullying me because of that. Society is so stupid nowadays when it comes to people who haven't had sex before.
Am I the only one having a hard time finding a husband?
Answer (1 of 15): I’m sure you’re not the only one. I came across one thing in your question that really sticks out to me as a potential source of the difficulty your having. My thoughts on this may be totally wrong or only partially right, but either way it’s worth considering any outside opini...
Angelique Valentini
Studied at Saluda High School (Graduated 2010)Author has 4.7K answers and 15.3M answer views4y
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Do you think no one will marry you?
I really do believe I won't ever get married, nor will I ever have sex or have children. I'm not an attractive woman, and I doubt very much any guy would want to touch me. I've been single for six years, and I'm only three years from 30; from there, I'm ten years from 40.
Classmates I went to school with ages 26–28, are already married and have kids under the age of six. One classmate of mine got married in November of last year, having been with the guy for two years. They don't have any children yet, but for now their “children” are their three cats.
When I think about love, sex, and children, I think that I may NEVER experience any of those things. Becoming one with the person you love, and the joy of knowing that you'll be a Mother in nine months. I'll never know the joy of holding a child in my arms, that all that pain was worth it. I'll never know the overwhelming happiness as tears come out of my eyes.
I don't like it when people on Facebook, Quora, and other places talk about babies. I go into an even more depressed state, wishing that I could experience that.
I truly believe I'll be alone, with no children or significant other by my side. I wish everyday, and have for the past few years, that I'm dead by 30. Because why am I put on this planet, only to end up alone?
Knowing that people out there are immature that a 27 year old woman hasn't had sex yet, I'm disabling comments. I don't want anyone bullying me because of that. Society is so stupid nowadays when it comes to people who haven't had sex before.
That’s what monogamy-only gives you.Interesting reading at this site...
The following is one post taken from it:Am I the only one having a hard time finding a husband?
Answer (1 of 15): I’m sure you’re not the only one. I came across one thing in your question that really sticks out to me as a potential source of the difficulty your having. My thoughts on this may be totally wrong or only partially right, but either way it’s worth considering any outside opini...
Angelique Valentini
Studied at Saluda High School (Graduated 2010)Author has 4.7K answers and 15.3M answer views4y
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Do you think no one will marry you?
I really do believe I won't ever get married, nor will I ever have sex or have children. I'm not an attractive woman, and I doubt very much any guy would want to touch me. I've been single for six years, and I'm only three years from 30; from there, I'm ten years from 40.
Classmates I went to school with ages 26–28, are already married and have kids under the age of six. One classmate of mine got married in November of last year, having been with the guy for two years. They don't have any children yet, but for now their “children” are their three cats.
When I think about love, sex, and children, I think that I may NEVER experience any of those things. Becoming one with the person you love, and the joy of knowing that you'll be a Mother in nine months. I'll never know the joy of holding a child in my arms, that all that pain was worth it. I'll never know the overwhelming happiness as tears come out of my eyes.
I don't like it when people on Facebook, Quora, and other places talk about babies. I go into an even more depressed state, wishing that I could experience that.
I truly believe I'll be alone, with no children or significant other by my side. I wish everyday, and have for the past few years, that I'm dead by 30. Because why am I put on this planet, only to end up alone?
Knowing that people out there are immature that a 27 year old woman hasn't had sex yet, I'm disabling comments. I don't want anyone bullying me because of that. Society is so stupid nowadays when it comes to people who haven't had sex before.
So sad.
Incorrect. It is something made worse by monogamy-only position.
Historically, in West there was never family formation problem for broad population. Now it exist. Something else has changed.
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Are you familiar with the word “spinster”?
Yes. But now projection says that 45% of women will be childress and unmarried in next 10 year which implies that current number is about 25-30%. In short social disaster.
When in history was at least quarter of women unmarried? Even if marriage was forbidden for slaves, slave girls would still participate in baby production.
There were always spinsters, but they were always individual problem. Never their presence was social issue
It must be something else. Probably anti-masculinity culture today and porn. I doubt that historically speaking most males would be unattractive enought to avoid having children. Even Puritans got 50% pregnant brides. I don't believe today most males in churches are able to seduce girl. And how much will have erection problem thanks to porn when they finally finish with naked girl?
And why death bedrooms exist as problem? Wasn't historical problem. Most women kept getting pregnant.
Here is long article how economics are social dimension are connected:
I don't agree with everything. He has subtle monogamy-only bias, but main points are right.
State influence is destroying family as concept because if state will take care of you why stay in family?
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I don't agree with everything. He has subtle monogamy-only bias, but main points are right.
State influence is destroying family as concept because if state will take care of you why stay in family?
ModernPolygamy
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I think what we all should consider is how do we reach people like this? We see people that have done the career route and drink the Koolaid only to realize at 40 that their life is nothing that they want and family, the one they traded for what they were told would make them happy, is all that matters to them. In these cases, they obviously ran across polygamy as a viable way to the life they deeply want....but how do we help people that have never heard of it cross that bridge?
That's the solution for many on both sides of the equation.
...we have the advertising capital, if the right ideas coalesce.
I hope that would include the younger ones in this situation too besides the 40 plus year old's. I am sure there are couples who are in their late 20's and early 30's who would not want to take on a 40+ year old second wife that is a decade or more older than them. that is good for the 50's crowd who wants a younger woman though. but I think this just brings it back us problem #1...... and that is polygamy as a whole just needs to be more popular in GENERAL with a spread across the age groups, and not be a niche thing that is rarely done here and there with not enough people to make it viable for any age demographic.( just hoping someone in your bracket may come along who fits).
overall I'm still on the edge of my seat watching the overall sentiment in polygamy, is this going to be a truly changing thing that we see polygamy become actually commonly done!?
or just a thing that will be forever shunned by the major populace?
I don't know, but I hope an answer becomes clear soon!
anyways, i hope my writing is not too ranty but sometimes i like to get my thoughts out sometimes, and written form is not my forte lol.
I will say I do think your website has the potential to help be a platform if a huge change takes place in polygamy!
Would like to hear more explanation on this! are you saying you have the capital to move on something, you just need the right ideas?
That's a lot of sad reading. The book of Ruth would be a good study for so many of those women.Interesting reading at this site...
The following is one post taken from it:Am I the only one having a hard time finding a husband?
Answer (1 of 15): I’m sure you’re not the only one. I came across one thing in your question that really sticks out to me as a potential source of the difficulty your having. My thoughts on this may be totally wrong or only partially right, but either way it’s worth considering any outside opini...
Angelique Valentini
Studied at Saluda High School (Graduated 2010)Author has 4.7K answers and 15.3M answer views4y
Related
Do you think no one will marry you?
I really do believe I won't ever get married, nor will I ever have sex or have children. I'm not an attractive woman, and I doubt very much any guy would want to touch me. I've been single for six years, and I'm only three years from 30; from there, I'm ten years from 40.
Classmates I went to school with ages 26–28, are already married and have kids under the age of six. One classmate of mine got married in November of last year, having been with the guy for two years. They don't have any children yet, but for now their “children” are their three cats.
When I think about love, sex, and children, I think that I may NEVER experience any of those things. Becoming one with the person you love, and the joy of knowing that you'll be a Mother in nine months. I'll never know the joy of holding a child in my arms, that all that pain was worth it. I'll never know the overwhelming happiness as tears come out of my eyes.
I don't like it when people on Facebook, Quora, and other places talk about babies. I go into an even more depressed state, wishing that I could experience that.
I truly believe I'll be alone, with no children or significant other by my side. I wish everyday, and have for the past few years, that I'm dead by 30. Because why am I put on this planet, only to end up alone?
Knowing that people out there are immature that a 27 year old woman hasn't had sex yet, I'm disabling comments. I don't want anyone bullying me because of that. Society is so stupid nowadays when it comes to people who haven't had sex before.
ModernPolygamy
Member
Within limits, yes. Enough that we can test the right ideas out and lose here and there as we find the right path to reach this market.
So, no prime time TV ads to a general audience, but custom content for target markets that may lose a few thousand each to test out. We're game to roll the dice on good ideas. If it reaches women that very much want a husband and family but who see no prospects and initiates even an idle interest in polygamy then it's worth the loss.
I got some insight from someone more knowledgeable on these matters of reaching target markets and advertising, and I think she gave some good insight into this.
So basically she thinks that the best way to really reach a broader audience would probably be something like Instagram reels. but it would have to be done in a way that shows a polygynous lifestyle done in a manner that is normal and peaceful in operation.
this person knows the state of polygamy too, and if you get on instagram right now and look up, polygamy, polygyny, plural marriage and etc you get nothing but hot mess disaster crazy. There is not one normal looking regular run of the mill family on there. it is filled with mostly immoral open polyamory type stuff all other kinds of unmoral crazy. I'm obviously for polygyny(most of us are if we are on this forum haha).... and looking at what is on there made me cringe hard! lol.
so the person I asked had a good idea..... there is a decent amount of reels about woman overall seeking out the simplier lifestyle stuff, like milling flour to do traditional bread baking, making jars of garden herbs on their pantry or kitchen set ups, wanting homestead or urban stead lifestyle with chickens, or cow or goats and so forth. There is so many women right now seeing reels on stuff like that and then just jumping in to milling flour from scratch and making bread! and they wouldn't have jumped into that stuff unless they saw it stylized on a reel.
I don't know if you could find a polygynous family with that type of stylized atmosphere of peace to do reels about the day to day life of polygyny or not? but that would probably reach a ton of people and make them consider it in a new light. and I'm sure that channel doing day to day stuff and answering all the questions that everyone has for it would probably draw a ton of single women to consider this. because right now all that is out there is either those popular sisterwife shows and they are hot mess, or these crazy immoral polyamory type craziness.
The person also said that would probably be the only way to go to reach women, because women do not and will not read or watch long videos or information about men telling them about polygny. that just will not reach them, that stuff is good for us guys who love to dig in and study the deeper things. but not the common populace of single women. It would have to be that type of media now days to reach a broader audience to bring them in.
I know this is probably asking for almost the impossible and it is a bit of a big stretch, but its nice to bounce ideas and hearing this from someone a little more savy on the internet stuff than I am.