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Well, the manic nature of your previous posts is now clarified. Many of us have been through the child rearing phase of life. It’s a struggle even without the poly bomb. As long as you understand that this is quite a melange of beliefs and...

This is why a song lyric like "I'll never hurt you" or "I'll never break your heart" is dumb. Even without intending pain we can cause it. What men or women would do intuitively in their relationship with each other is often wrong as in NOT...

Yeah. I'm sure if we knew F2 as well as we know each other, we would find that she also has struggled and may be broken to some extent in her own way. I think everyone is. My wife and I were both dealt tough hands in life. We were only shown...

We are all "fixer uppers" in some ways. All of us are unfinished works in progress, and sometimes that is as messy and chaotic as trying to remodel the kitchen while still using it multiple times a day! It is also easy to look at someone else...

My mother says, do what you can, where you are, with what you've got. At the moment it sounds like you both need a break. You may not be in the position to get a break together but you could give your wife a couple days break and then she can...

I don’t know what others consider normal, but when I raised children, just two of them, we followed the rule of never having children in our bedroom. A few nights, when a child was teething, we spelled each other with the child in bed with one...

It's still a bad analogy. We really aren't made to divide our affections and it is a gross twisting of divine order for a woman to have two heads.

Jolene, thank you for weighing in here. I also want to add that I do guard my heart from sinful desires. I don't entertain lustful thoughts about women. I don't watch porn. This is the first time since in my life that I've met someone other than...

This is directed to men...not wives. It is the only thing my husband could come up with as any reason to think twice....but there is more at stake than steak here. There are real women out there that men literally don't exist for. My...

I perhaps did not communicate well. I said NOTHING about her wanting my children. IF she had original equipment then we would have many. She does not. She is 65 and by this time the equipment expired. Sex is not the issue.

That by the way is a very horrible "worst" and the honest expectation most of the time. There is a lot of a woman's sense of security that is threatened by another woman in the picture.

It is easy for us to judge our partner from OUR nature, and can be difficult to realize we are made very differently. As a woman I have done as you have and guarded my heart and relationship. I have never wanted another romantic partner. When...

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My wife has been really angry about it since we came home on Sunday. We've been praying for a long time that God would change one of us so we could be in complete agreement on this issue. I knew she had concerns, but I didn't realize how strongly...

Well, the manic nature of your previous posts is now clarified. Many of us have been through the child rearing phase of life. It’s a struggle even without the poly bomb. As long as you understand that this is quite a melange of beliefs and...