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I don’t know what others consider normal, but when I raised children, just two of them, we followed the rule of never having children in our bedroom. A few nights, when a child was teething, we spelled each other with the child in bed with one...

I don’t know what others consider normal, but when I raised children, just two of them, we followed the rule of never having children in our bedroom. A few nights, when a child was teething, we spelled each other with the child in bed with one...

Even though I am not a polygynyst, I concur with what a lot of other people are saying. Not saying that this necessarily applies to you directly, but I don't think anyone should move into polygyny out of desperation. I don't think we should view...

I’m curious as to what help you think that a family should have? Outside of spiritual and medical help, it seems that the family is mostly an autonomous entity.

This has opened the opportunity for your wife to experience first hand what it's like to meet someone you're interested in. It will likely be an emotional roller coast for her. It is also an opportunity for the new woman to see that you are a...

Even though I am not a polygynyst, I concur with what a lot of other people are saying. Not saying that this necessarily applies to you directly, but I don't think anyone should move into polygyny out of desperation. I don't think we should view...

The biblical account is fairly self-explanatory. According to 1 Kings 3:5-13, At Gibeon the Lord appeared to Solomon in a dream by night; and God said, “Ask! What shall I give you?” 6 And Solomon said: “You have shown great mercy to Your servant...

I hear what you are saying, but it doesn't sound like much out of the ordinary for many of us. When I married my first wife, she became pregnant after three months, suffered horrendous morning sickness untill the day she delivered, and had the...

I hear what you are saying, but it doesn't sound like much out of the ordinary for many of us. When I married my first wife, she became pregnant after three months, suffered horrendous morning sickness untill the day she delivered, and had the...

Mate, I think you need to sort your current situation out and get things in order, or what you have will blow up in your face when you try to add another wife. What you say doesn't appear to present a well ordered home environment to add to...

Yeah, you're probably right, but what was the thing she felt unsafe about? Hard to know. I can't tell what her perspective is here. I just had a very long conversation with my wife about this. She brought up some other possibilities that frankly...

This has opened the opportunity for your wife to experience first hand what it's like to meet someone you're interested in. It will likely be an emotional roller coast for her. It is also an opportunity for the new woman to see that you are a...

The biblical account is fairly self-explanatory. According to 1 Kings 3:5-13, At Gibeon the Lord appeared to Solomon in a dream by night; and God said, “Ask! What shall I give you?” 6 And Solomon said: “You have shown great mercy to Your servant...

The biblical account is fairly self-explanatory. According to 1 Kings 3:5-13, At Gibeon the Lord appeared to Solomon in a dream by night; and God said, “Ask! What shall I give you?” 6 And Solomon said: “You have shown great mercy to Your servant...

This is a marathon, not a sprint. Don’t overthink it. Now if she never wants to talk to you again, that’s different. Most women aren’t going to be comfortable even hinting that they have an interest in another woman’s man. It’s a taboo subject...