My opinion:
Men are more attracted visually than women are. I believe that it was Divine design to get the ball rolling, so to speak. From that point on, a woman’s spirit needs to be attractive or the relationship should go no further. Guys, invest in one of the new robots if looks is your focus.
Having married her, loving her is a requirement from Yah. Some days it is a choice, you don’t get to rely on feelings. If her attitude is bad, that’s your responsibility to work with. Sadly, sometimes it is unfixable as David found out with Michal.
I make it known in my relationships that health is the priority. Not size/weight.
An unhealthy person is not a happy person and that has an effect on the rest of the family. They are also harder to love and feel attracted to.
My definition of healthy: A person sincerely and intentionally working and eating towards better health.
Set the standard for healthy eating in your family, guys. Don’t make her be your mother.
And for crying out loud, don’t make her eat more healthy than she feeds you!
Lead, quitcher bitchin.
When she is bonded to you, she probably will be attracted to your body. Probably even to your natural scent if you are eating somewhat cleanly. Interestingly enough, I have heard that body odor the day after eat pork is off-putting to some. We wouldn’t know, not in this family.