Old saying I once heard:
Tradition is why we do things when we no longer remember why we do those things.
If you know why you are upholding a tradition then I can respect that. But if you're like the Muslims who do things without ever thinking about them and whether or not they glorify God then that's just stupid.
Traditions like modesty can be obviously and positively applied in the modern day. Meaning that the
outcome of upholding the tradition validates the tradition as a wise practice.
This is my personal lens that I use to view and judge traditions is to ask if they make sense in the modern day and does the outcome of upholding the tradition bring glory to God? Does it make sense?
Like many churches and fellowships are against drinking alcohol.
Ever.
Abstinence from drink is a tradition with them.
That's nice and if they like it then fine by me.
Myself, I acknowledge that the best vintner who ever lived was Himself Christ Jesus. (John 2)
So sorry to all the teetotalers and their traditions but I will enjoy myself a drink when I can because Jesus liked a decent wine Himself.
There is a tradition of docking the ears and tails of Doberman dogs because they used to be used for fighting. The tradition was upheld for long after dog fighting was outlawed and now in my opinion doing this to the dog is needless and senseless mutilation. But stupid people insist on doing it as a tradition.
The point is that traditions need to have a purpose and they should have a positive and observable outcome for abiding them.
Just my own opinions here.