Isaiah 4:1
And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.
I like what Ray last had to say on this topic, and the "new thing" that God is doing, and note that there hasn't been much else said on Isaiah 4:1 since then. But over the weekend, I had a dream on a peripherally-related topic (mostly having to do with forgiveness and repentance) which resulted in a long discussion with my wife L.
Out of that came an understanding that we both agreed I should post here - largely because it had what I have come to know as "the ring of Truth" from Him. Some background is necessary first, however.
There is a long-time female friend of our family who was widowed a few years ago; both of my wives at one time or another have made some type of reference to whether I should consider another wife, and thus to her obvious situation as well.
(Here must follow an admission, without which understanding of this story might not be complete. And, apologies in advance, should any be offended. I could truthfully state to alI that I was not 'looking for' another wife. This was probably more of an excuse, however. While this woman is by all observation a fine Christian, who shares our Messianic understanding, she is also a chain smoker. Even though she is considerate around us, and I love her as a wonderful woman, I must admit that my own reaction to the addiction and smell is such that I simply could not conceive of a one-flesh relationship.)
Lately there has been another, and far more grave, issue. Things that B revealed in claims that form part of the 'complaint' used by the prosecutor to justify my "felony email harassment" persecution indicate that this woman may have (along with B's sister in a primary role, and to a lesser extent, others of her family) taken an active part in convincing her to reject our marriage Covenant. While I have come to terms with forgiveness in an "intellectual" sense, I continue to pray about forgiveness "from my heart", and am thankful that God has given me much guidance there.
The discussion that I had with L following my dream and subsequent prayers Sunday morning took a different turn yet. I have long known that my wife B and this woman shared similar elements of abuse in their past (and although I have prayed with the latter, I do not know the details of her story). Likewise, it has been clear to me for some time that they shared similar aspects of spiritual torment; I came to recognize that the demonic force that ultimately drove B from my presence was a "familiar spirit" because I saw it in this friend as well.
But I have known this for some time. What I saw yesterday was another issue entirely. The questions that I asked myself, and God, were new to me:
Had God directed me to consider this woman as a wife at some point? Was I in rebellion? Was I just being lazy?
There is no question that dealing with B's spiritual attacks were a "handfull" - and that while I had seen some true miracles of healing, that "work in progress" can only be described honestly at this point - so far - as having fallen short. I love her, and continue to cover her in prayer, and count on God for her delivery and healing. But I wasn't ready to fight such a battle on a second front.
(And others here - myself included - might well objectively counsel a man to be "very cautious" in considering any such marriage!)
Nevertheless, the question remained. If God had actually asked me to consider such a marriage, and I had not listened - I had something to repent for.
As I discussed this with L, and even as I write it now, I am by no means certain that He made such a request. But I
do think I was to consider the ramifications -- because of other things He made clear to me that morning. But I also now know what He showed both of us during that discussion.
I have no doubt that the standard interpretation of the Hebrew in Isaiah 4:1 is correct:
to "take away my reproach" generally refers to barrenness, and would imply that those seven women may be seeking the chance to bear children. But there is an additional level of Truth as well - and one which, it seems to me, is so clearly apropos for post-Christian Amerika:
"My reproach" is the spirit of Jezebel. To "take away my reproach" is to deliver a generation of women from the curse that plagues a pagan, anti-patriarchal world. That is the promise of the glorious days which follow.
Blessings in Him,
Mark