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"I'm Coming Out!" (The Right Way & The Wrong Way)

I guess I am lucky. The only person in our lives that dont know is my mother and even with her I think she knows. Shes just calls the second wife a cuncubine. lol. I have NEVER hid it from anyone in anyway and wont. I will proudly stand up for what I see and know is right. We have not lost any friends or family or anyone else in our lives. My first wife is a daycare teacher and everyone she works with knows how we feel about it. My possible second wife is also a daycare teacher (which we think is funny). She hasnt broken the news to anyone yet but she still resides in her own home currently as we are all trying to make her at ease with it.

As for my kids. They all know and approve. Really shocking at one point for us but it shows to us that we have raised them with an open mind and to be able to make up their own way of thinking instead of what society thinks. All of my girls know that its their choice if they want to when they get older or not. But it has to be for the right reason, not just so the hubby can step out and do what he wants. The boys are still too young to fully explain it too. Their ages range from 7-15.

My goal in life is to open peoples eyes to the truth. Not the misconceptions of the media. If there were enough people in my area who practiced this for the right reasons I would try to get it legalized in this county first, then to the state, and progress out to other states. And yes, it can be legal in the county before the state. Many laws are like that. If it were legal here it would sure boost the population growth and economy I guess, lol.

Maybe one day I can become a minister but I have a long path to travel before then. ;)
 
My family is a traditional group. If it doesnt fit into american beliefs then its wrong. For example If a man want to date or marry a cousin here in the usa. People think there is somthing wrong or perverted with him. However over seas and for centuries dating and marring cousins is the norm. Just like many countries allow and promote the poly life. I love the usa,but to believe that anyone who doent act like we do is wrong or evil is nonsense. My family asked me if I would want my daughters in a poly relationship. I said yes. Ofcourse they didnt like my response. I told my wife that if G-D sends us a second wife. I will not hide her or lie to the neighbor. If as a man I can have many girl friends, then I should be allowed to have as many wives that will have me. The law against the poly life was a politcal move by pres andrew jackson against the morman church. There is a letter he wrote where he says that if somthing isnt done then these mormon will out number everyone else. I believe in G-D jesus and the word. I will not hide like a theif. Instead I will trust he who made me to protect me and mine.
Pres. jackson violated freedom of religion. it needs to be changed. My favorite thing that people say to me is this one. poly was for the old day,not now. G-D doesnt change and neither does his law. Only humans change. Until we can wlk in the light together be blessed. roy
 
My family is a traditional group. If it doesnt fit into american beliefs then its wrong. For example If a man want to date or marry a cousin here in the usa. People think there is somthing wrong or perverted with him. However over seas and for centuries dating and marring cousins is the norm. Just like many countries allow and promote the poly life. I love the usa,but to believe that anyone who doent act like we do is wrong or evil is nonsense. My family asked me if I would want my daughters in a poly relationship. I said yes. Ofcourse they didnt like my response. I told my wife that if G-D sends us a second wife. I will not hide her or lie to the neighbor. If as a man I can have many girl friends, then I should be allowed to have as many wives that will have me. The law against the poly life was a politcal move by pres andrew jackson against the morman church. There is a letter he wrote where he says that if somthing isnt done then these mormon will out number everyone else. I believe in G-D jesus and the word. I will not hide like a theif. Instead I will trust he who made me to protect me and mine.
Pres. jackson violated freedom of religion. it needs to be changed. My favorite thing that people say to me is this one. poly was for the old day,not now. G-D doesnt change and neither does his law. Only humans change. Until we can wlk in the light together be blessed. roy
 
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