How can you set your marriage up for success?

[FeministVampireQueen]

Problem is nice guys are too often subservient and allow women to run over them. This will result in divorce after she gets enough of ick feeling.

Yes, well no one wants a pushover, people can be nice without being a pushover. I've always found nice men attractive. I think the advice was more referring to being someone that others want to be around, most people want to be around someone with a good personality.

 

[MemeFan]

Yes, well no one wants a pushover, people can be nice without being a pushover. I've always found nice men attractive. I think the advice was more referring to be someone that others want to be around, most people want to be around someone with a good personality.

Then we aren't using same definition of nice.

 

[millennial_mama]

"F2 is a wonderful person who would fit perfectly with our entire family" - If this is true, your wife may not realize or understand this now, but you are your whole family have been highly blessed and favored by the Lord.

I’m the F1 wife here. I realize people on this forum believe this idea, but I just feel like I’m being cheated on and am being pressured to accept it as something Godly and right. Due to addiction issues and more, I really have had no trust for him for our whole marriage, and so trying to trust him in this issue is made extremely hard. I imagine that it would be easier for a wife to accept this if her husband was always a trustworthy person.