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@indigenouspolygynist
I’m not in your home, and I’m only one opinion, but I think this F2 as you call her has been more or less a mental escape for you while F1 is stewing in her stress at home without an outlet similar to yours.
I’d take more...
I'm having trouble keeping up on all these comments now. I wish I could reply to all of them. There are a lot of god points being made here. But something I haven't seen mentioned (maybe I missed it) is that husbands should be worthy of their...
Thank you Mojo for being understanding. I just don’t have a lot of capacity for these ideas right now. I also do not want to be a rebellious feminist at all. I’ve been a believer for decades, Jesus is my Lord and ruler of my life, and I have...
Prehaps all of these problems are linked to not knowing how to really be feminine in our appropriate roles, men, women and children. I have been thinking about this. When I was a kid my family and community depended on God, relied on Him, trusted...
Prehaps the real answer is men coming back to God and entirely depending on Him and then women and children would naturally fall into line, cause all they really want is to be loved (not dominated) and looked after.
It seems women get the short end of the deal. It seems like such an amazing thing to be a man, and women endure such suffering even simply bearing children and raising them. I’ve been pregnant and/or nursing continuously for over 11 years. I’m so...
This is just a lot for me to take right now. I’m postpartum with my 4th child, drowning in kids and homeschooling and housework. And getting woken up all night and not sleeping. I’m so overwhelmed.
Thank you Mojo for being understanding. I just don’t have a lot of capacity for these ideas right now. I also do not want to be a rebellious feminist at all. I’ve been a believer for decades, Jesus is my Lord and ruler of my life, and I have...
Hi @millennial_mama, I can see from your responses this situation has thrown you into an emotional turmoil. I've seen it and been through it. How did we progress through the confusion and maintain some sense of sanity?? We anchored our thoughts...
Sounds like you at least need to take a break and catch your breath.
Relax. Recenter.
Now we are getting somewhere. It sounds like you have some work to do with your first wife before adding a second wife.
Maybe you need to put your foot...
Do not settle for small scraps. Carve yourself out a choice time and make it a priority. This is really important!
How old are your kids? If they are young put them to bed earlier and tell them that it is mommy and daddy time now. Expect them to...
Sounds like you at least need to take a break and catch your breath.
Relax. Recenter.
Now we are getting somewhere. It sounds like you have some work to do with your first wife before adding a second wife.
Maybe you need to put your foot...