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This was a verse that I had questioned too, and after some digging it blew my mind how it has been translated to fit cultural norms. Yes, this is what I am struggling with. the more I read and understand the more I question what I was taught. It...

That outside perspective on stuff that is just "normal" to us can be so helpful in understanding what we're dealing with! I can just handle big stuff.... I have had to realize this internal stuff isn't as small as it seems. There really is...

Husband and I took the attachment style test and we are both about as secure as can be with one another. What stood out to me is I view this PM as work! 😳. I am more fearful/preoccupied when it comes to work relationships. Since learning this it...

Welcome to the site! I hope you will find good things here along with encouraging and support from others traveling this road with you. I encourage you to go into your account and select a gender. This will enable you to post in the Ladies...

I applaud your openness. It’s hard to put your thoughts and raw feelings out there to others that you do not know. Though I am still an only wife, my husband has dated over the years and I have had my share of negative responses. (All of the...

I am the odd first wife that never had the aversion. I have had other struggles with my own insecurities...and that has not been easy on anyone. I don't do change well....and my dear husband and I didn't understand how to help each other with...

Thanks for being so honest and vulnerable. Just because this is scriptural and completely normal biblical living does not mean it is for us. We have literally no prior knowledge, life experience, and for most of us we don’t personally know...

I thought this quote from @Joleneakamama was one of the profoundest things we’ve seen in a while. It comes from this post: Post in thread 'Permissible but detestable'

Welcome! You have certainly hit the ground running with your introduction. It probably seems a bit overwhelming but there are lots of good recommendations being presented and wisdom from those who have been researching this for many years. I...

To my thinking it also established back then the concept Paul was discussing when he wrote that husbands and wives are not to defraud one another without consent, and also they they do not have authority over their own body (to refuse) because...

My sisterwife feels the benefits for single moms are not talked about enough. It is a viable option for some, and probably a terrible idea for others. The social pressure from other believers is maybe the worst thing. Some accept it. After...

Basically, you just have to show the algorithm that you are a real person. After so many replies and what not you will have that option. Maybe reach out to indigenous poliginist through his email, and he can send it to you? I'd rather not post my...

Fornication is a difficult word to understand. Many of us have struggled with it. Modernity has turned it into a catch all phrase to mean anything involving sex. Some of us try to resolve the ambiguity by referring back to the actual manual on...

I would love to have some very thorough research. I have a very inquisitive mind so a simple blanket statement is not typically enough (ironic since my current belief is based on what I was taught growing up and didn’t take the time to further...