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When is clingy too clingy?

Revgill87123

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When courting a second wife you can run into people who are just too clingy. I am wandering what this may mean to different people on here. So what do you consider as too clingy?
 
I'm very much a space person. So to me, clingy is when someone is constantly emailing/texting/calling during the day, or making you feel as though you need to spend loads of time together. Also, someone who constantly asks me who I'm with, where I'm going, etc. If you're making me feel as though I'm in a relationship with my mom, you are being too clingy! lol :D

Blessings,

Lulu
 
I think this question is pretty relative. It actually doesn't matter what I think is too clingy...it only matters what YOU think is too clingy! because what may feel too clingy to one person may be flattering attention to another, so if you are feeling that someone is being too clingy you may just have a small incompatibility issue. Perhaps it's not that she is too clingy, but that you both have different needs as far as personal space goes.
 
Amen Love!

Couldn't have said it better myself - LOL! :lol: ;) As this is too true. We all are created in our own special ways by the hands of our Awesome Lord & Savior. As He has a special purpose and plan for each of our lives. So important to be in His will, in the Word and in prayer, seeking "that someone special that He has for us." In the beginning of any relationship, it's good to have open honest, compassionate dialogue. Discussing our likes & dislikes. Talking about whats important to us and any call or mission that the Lord may have placed on our lives. Respecting each others differences, while having and maintaining Godly/healthy boundaries. And maybe at the end of the day, realizing that Yeshua has placed a particular Sister or Brother in Christ, on our path for nothing more than a friendly/Godly friendship. ;)

F.S.
 
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