Beta, dear,
It is the sworn duty of the Anti-christ, (not just the dude, but the spirit behind the dude,) to "wear out the saints of the most high," and that is exactly what we DON'T want to see happen to such a precious warrior as are you. I know that for me when I am dealing with long, drawn out, seemingly intractable situations or folks, what has helped has been to focus on how the situation makes our Beloved feel, rather than my own weariness. Somehow being able to switch from the effect it has on me to the effect it has on Him brings strength, and yes, oftentimes, zany humour.
Please feel free to lean on your battle buddies, and may the Shalom of the One true El of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob keep your heart and mind through all this mess.
Blessings,
ali