chaisem said:
not sure what to do about ... not able to find a good man to stand by me...tired of doing it all alone ...
And justly so. God didn't intend for you to go it alone. Is PM the "perfect plan" for marriage? *shrug* Who knows? But it does appear to be God's perfect provision in an imperfect world. So ... suggestions?
2 occur. Register with the folks here at Biblical Families and ask for introductions. They will send you information and suggestions about families who THEY KNOW to be good folks and open to adding to their families at this time. Not a bad place to start.
Alternately, you could look around at church, decide on a famil;y you might like to join, approach them and ask to do so. If they go into immediate meltdown with blown minds, we'll be glad to help pick up the pieces. *grin* Maybe help them open their hearts and minds.
Of course, as a third option, you could read the postings of the various families here, and approach one that sounds compatible. Or even invite folks to PM you, which you sorta did, *grin*, and maybe get deluged!!!
Anyways, welcome. Hope we can be of help. And look forward to meeting you, perhaps at a retreat.