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Building a Tower: Luke 14:25-35

ylop

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Normally discussed in sermons as "Counting the Cost of becoming a disciple" however I am going to focus on the tower part:

“Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it? For if you lay the foundation and are not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule you, saying, ‘This person began to build and wasn’t able to finish.’

Three Foundations for a Strong Tower:

Physical:
. Health is sound (of course no one knows for sure, however you need to go into this venture from a position of strength not weakness)
. Temperament is even, not prone to anger, balanced
. Surplus time available

Spiritual
. Mature disciple, not easily blown off course by new doctrines (like biblical marriage some might say :D )
. Confident in the biblical justification for your lifestyle
. Leadership of your family established

Financial
. Housing adequate for additional wives and children, in line with surrounding community standards
. Income is showing a surplus sufficient to cover additional wives and children, funds are accumulating not diminishing.
. Reserves for unexpected situations, such as an interuption in income or surprise medical expenses, bearing in mind your 1 Timothy 5:8 responsibility.

Planning to build a strong tower makes it more likely that you will succeed, and instead of mocking others may say "Look at that fellow's tower, it is not so bad after all, maybe I should build one too, or at least not throw rocks at it".

ylop
 
ylop said:
Planning to build a strong tower makes it more likely that you will succeed, and instead of mocking others may say "Look at that fellow's tower, it is not so bad after all, maybe I should build one too, or at least not throw rocks at it".ylop
this is an excellent way to view polygyny, and i hope that you do not mind that i am borrowing it for another thread ;)
 
Hi Steve. Thanks for the feedback, and feel free to borrow. I came across the verses and thought 'hey, that could be applied to biblical marriage'. Particularly the bits about planning well so you can follow through the project and not have to abandon it halfway exposing all to ridicule and shame.

ylop the tower building apprentice
 
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