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Maddog said:
not her but everybody else. I wont say because I dont kiss and tell....
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Whew! You had me worried there! I suppose jealousy is part of what got me into this mess. I don't kiss and tell either, but I would sure like to!!!
 
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Heavens Declare said:
I didn't miss out on it, and parts of it, I wish never happened, and other parts, I'm glad it did! My @lily4love will be hard to get over, much more difficult than the ones we suspect are fraudulent.
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Dude, she was fake. Faker than fake. With me only having said hello in the welcome thread, she slid into my DMs and volunteered that she was 18, that she has family in the US and "have visit US many time before", that she had "lots of Mormon bibles," wanted to "have my own babies soon", and that she wouldn't need a visa to come be my wife. With me expressing zero interest whatsoever.

She also started calling me Steve...

As someone who deals with a lot of Chinese and Hong Kong citizens on a weekly basis as part of my job, her English grammar didn't even resemble someone from China or Hong Kong. It more resembled someone from Pakistan, India, or Bangladesh.
 
UtahLife said:
Dude, she was fake. Faker than fake. With me only having said hello in the welcome thread, she slid into my DMs and volunteered that she was 18, that she has family in the US and "have visit US many time before", that she had "lots of Mormon bibles," wanted to "have my own babies soon", and that she wouldn't need a visa to come be my wife. With me expressing zero interest whatsoever.

She also started calling me Steve...

As someone who deals with a lot of Chinese and Hong Kong citizens on a weekly basis as part of my job, her English grammar didn't even resemble someone from China or Hong Kong. It more resembled someone from Pakistan, India, or Bangladesh.
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C'mon, I didn't get anything from Lily.

On another side, not getting attention by scammers is good.
 
What concerns me about this line of messages is nothing is pointing towards God in most of the messages especailly the last ones. How can your peers grow when your salivating over a female. Men lead do not get it looped back words. We are here to grow closer to God please stay focused on praying and reading Gods word and digging into it.
 
moonwalker5 said:
What concerns me about this line of messages is nothing is pointing towards God in most of the messages especailly the last ones. How can your peers grow when your salivating over a female. Men lead do not get it looped back words. We are here to grow closer to God please stay focused on praying and reading Gods word and digging into it.
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Well Moonwalker5, there is a reality about biblical Marriages. That is, they do not happen if the man is not interested in a lady. So, "salivating" might be your description of it but it is a natural desire that GOD himself placed within men to desire women. If they did not have that desire, it would end badly for God's creation.

Let's not shame men or women for desiring a good match. We can still be spirit filled and salivate over our partner/s and/or a potential partner.
 
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Noclue if the account in question is fake or not as I have not interacted eith them. I do know that it hammers home my point I recently touched on in re always get confirmation via video Early...bloody immediately in fact...if someone is acting in good faith then it should not be an issue.

The only way we should operate or accept in this arena should be in good faith.
Zero time for reindeer games, we have families to build
 
Man_in_the_Middle said:
Well Moonwalker5, there is a reality about biblical Marriages. That is, they do not happen if the man is not interested in a lady. So, "salivating" might be your description of it but it is a natural desire that GOD himself placed within men to desire women. If they did not have that desire, it would end badly for God's creation.

Let's not shame men or women for desiring a good match. We can still be spirit filled and salivate over our partner/s and/or a potential i
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Man_in_the_Middle said:
Well Moonwalker5, there is a reality about biblical Marriages. That is, they do not happen if the man is not interested in a lady. So, "salivating" might be your description of it but it is a natural desire that GOD himself placed within men to desire women. If they did not have that desire, it would end badly for God's creation.

Let's not shame men or women for desiring a good match. We can still be spirit filled and salivate over our partner/s and/or a potential partner.
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I am a married man and understand wanting someone and desiring someone but it has to be in the right manner and context everything is to be done in the right way. For my stance the post is hello everyone that means a greeting section. A person seeking to join the forum to grow closer to God and everyone. I personally understand desiring a wife pr wives. But it needs to be done in the right place. To put this in better context imagine I am a complete stranger a non believer who deals with drama ever day and deals with being hurt everyday and then I log into this site and see this post and read could it possible make me lose interest in the site and the people invovled. My mind says yes it could so if there is a chance one non beliver does not hear and God and Jesus then I will not do it and therefore that is how view this. Could the actions on the post cause spiritual ripples effecting someones soul. It could so this is my stance amd I am not shsming anyone I am instead putting God first on a global outreach platform made to draw people closer to God and there future spouse or spouses it has to be done in the right way in Gods word. So with that said I disagree with your approach but respect you and ykur view and opnion as a fellow beliver.
 
moonwalker5 said:
I am a married man and understand wanting someone and desiring someone but it has to be in the right manner and context everything is to be done in the right way. For my stance the post is hello everyone that means a greeting section. A person seeking to join the forum to grow closer to God and everyone. I personally understand desiring a wife pr wives. But it needs to be done in the right place. To put this in better context imagine I am a complete stranger a non believer who deals with drama ever day and deals with being hurt everyday and then I log into this site and see this post and read could it possible make me lose interest in the site and the people invovled. My mind says yes it could so if there is a chance one non beliver does not hear and God and Jesus then I will not do it and therefore that is how view this. Could the actions on the post cause spiritual ripples effecting someones soul. It could so this is my stance amd I am not shsming anyone I am instead putting God first on a global outreach platform made to draw people closer to God and there future spouse or spouses it has to be done in the right way in Gods word. So with that said I disagree with your approach but respect you and ykur view and opnion as a fellow beliver.
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my approach? Acknowledging God given desire? I am not sure I understand but.. . . okay...
 
I am curious...

So the young woman in question seems to show as having the real person designation. I know someone(s) had suggested that she got on the ladies video chat and that it has been too short of a time for any of us to vouch for her after an in person meeting.
If she is now acknowledged as being who she says to one extent or another, I am a bit confused about a controversy still existing.
 
paterfamilias said:
I am curious...

So the young woman in question seems to show as having the real person designation. I know someone(s) had suggested that she got on the ladies video chat and that it has been too short of a time for any of us to vouch for her after an in person meeting.
If she is now acknowledged as being who she says to one extent or another, I am a bit confused about a controversy still existing.
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A lot more of the discussion took place on the Real People thread.
Start about here and you can fill in some details: https://biblicalfamilies.org/forum/threads/real-people.15101/page-11
 
moonwalker5 said:
How can your peers grow when your salivating over a female
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Hardly anyone was salivating.
Most were urging caution and discussing whether or not there was a need for concern.
 
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